Wanda Michelle Oliver

November 21, 1974 - July 29, 2008

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Services:

 

A Funeral Service will be held on Wednesday, August 6, 2008 at 10:00 AM in Christ Episcopal Church, Chaptico, MD with Rev. William "Jesse" Neat officiating.

Visitation:

  The family will receive friends on Tuesday, August 5, 2008 from 5:00 - 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home where prayers will be said at 7:00 PM.
   Wanda Michelle “Shelly” Oliver, 33, of Mechanicsville, MD died July 29, 2008 at St. Mary’s Hospital. Born November 21, 1974 in Leonardtown, MD she was the daughter of Wanda Jackie Oliver Lathroum of Mechanicsville, MD and the late Dennis Edwin Oliver and step-father Ricky W. Lathroum of Mechancisville, MD. She is also survived by her sisters Cassie Lathroum and Krystle Lathroum, both of Mechanicsville, MD and her brother-in-law Jonathan Howsare, grandmothers Virginia “Jenny” Oliver and Ann Louise Shotwell Blankenship. She was preceded in death by her sister Ann Marie Lathroum and her grandfathers Edward Oliver and Frank Shotwell. A lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County, Shelly attended Chopticon High School. She enjoyed listening to country and bluegrass music. Her favorite artist was Allison Krause.  She enjoyed shopping with family and friends spoiling her nephews Shawn and Jackson. She always gave to people in need. The family will receive friends on Tuesday, August 5, 2008 from 5:00 – 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 7:00 PM. A funeral service will be held on Wednesday, August 6, 2008 at 10:00 AM in Christ Episcopal Church, Chaptico, MD with Rev. William “Jesse” Neat officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery. Pallbearers will be her God-father Glenn Shotwell, Sr., Jonathan Howsare, Bret Reed, John Taylor, Jr., Ralph Ernst and Tommy Copsey, Jr. Honorary pallbearers will be Franklin Shotwell and Joshua Maggio.

Guestbook Signatures and Condolences

"Jennie & Eddie, & Family - My thoughts and prayers are for Shellie and all the memories that surrounded you throughout her life. May comfort and healing come in it's precious time. Call if you need to talk."
- Barbara Hickey
- Posted: Thursday, August 7, 2008

"Jackie, Cassie, Krystal & Ricky - I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Michelle will be missed. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you guys. You are all in my thoughts. Love you all. "
- Valerie Copsey
- Posted: Wednesday, August 6, 2008

"our prayers and thoughts are with family maygod bless you all "
- bubba-n-terri lathroum
- Posted: Wednesday, August 6, 2008

"Our Prayers and hopes for a rainbow in the dark clouds of your grief. May the Lord bless you, keep you,and make His face shine upon you, and give you peace. "
- Owen & Mary Kelley
- Posted: Tuesday, August 5, 2008

"I went to school with Wanda, very sweet person and quiet u had to talk to her to know her. My heart goes out to the family.My prayers are with the family."
- Chontae Somerville
- Posted: Tuesday, August 5, 2008

"While I didn't have the privilege of knowing Michelle personally, I knew her smile, and through her loving Mom, I feel I knew her wonderful spirit. As condolences posted prior to mine indicate, Michelle was an angel on earth who must now watch over all of us from above. She was loved very much and made a lasting, loving impression on all who met her. My love and prayers are with you all."
- Donna Gebicke
- Posted: Tuesday, August 5, 2008

"Aunt Jennie & Family, May the Lord bless and keep everyone's special memories of Shelly at heart, and one day we all will be with our Lord in Heaven, at our Home as promised. With God's everlasting Love!"
- Jeanette & Rodney Ridenour
- Posted: Tuesday, August 5, 2008

"Jackie and family. Our deepest sympathy go out to your family. The loss of a child no matter the age is always tough. We will keep you in our thoughts and Prayers. "
- Dawn, Jerry and Family
- Posted: Tuesday, August 5, 2008

"Jackie, I was shocked and saddened by the news of Michelle's passing. No mother should ever have to experience such sorrow. Please accept my deepest sympathy and friendship during this difficult time and always."
- Hortensia Thompson
- Posted: Tuesday, August 5, 2008

"Jackie and family, my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your daughter Michelle. The loss of a child, no matter the age, is a loss like no other. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time."
- Joyce Malone
- Posted: Monday, August 4, 2008

"No words can even begin to express the sorrow we feel over losing Michelle. She had a heart of gold and would do anything for anyone. She will greatly be missed. It's such a sad, sad world to lose someone as special as her. Our condolences go out to her entire family. We love you Michelle and you will FOREVER be in our hearts."
- Eddie, Tammie, Sam & Maddie Shotwell
- Posted: Monday, August 4, 2008

"My thoughts and prayers are with the family at their time of loss."
- Beth Collier
- Posted: Monday, August 4, 2008

"Dear Aunt Jennie: My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know there are no words to express how you must feel. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4"
- Melissa Hepner
- Posted: Sunday, August 3, 2008

"Jenny we are so sorry for your loss.We know how close you and Michele were and how hard it is for you and Eddie at this time. "
- Deborah and Dana Hepner
- Posted: Sunday, August 3, 2008

"Mom and family! I am completly devasted & still in total shock. My loving sister is up in heaven with the angels. I always thought we would have more time. I would have said alot more and spent much more time with her. I know all of our hearts are breaking over this. I just don't know how we will ever get through this. I know she is in heaven there is no doubt in my mind. I love you guys and hope we can be strong for each other. She will always be with us. I love you and miss you michlle. Cassie"
- Cassie Lathroum Howsare
- Posted: Sunday, August 3, 2008

"Jenny & Debbie, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of the family. Michelle was a kind soul and we are lucky to spend some great times with the three of you. We loved her very much and will miss her always. Please call if you ever need us."
- Barbra Jo & Michelle (Beej & Mickey) Osgood
- Posted: Saturday, August 2, 2008

"Jackie, Ricky, & Family "We are thinking of you during this difficult time." There are no words to take away your pain. Michelle was a wonderful and caring person. She and I had alot of laughs and fun times together as teenagers. If there is anything that we can do for you, don not hesitate to call. We are here for you. Michelle was loved by many and she will be greatly missed!"
- Jennifer,Chuck, & Olivia Schwartz
- Posted: Friday, August 1, 2008

"Jackie and Ricky, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. If there is anything that I can do, please feel free to call on us at any time of the day or night. God Bless you all."
- Donna & Leonard Bean
- Posted: Friday, August 1, 2008

"Jackie, Ricky, Cassie and Cristal, we're sorry and deeply saddened by your lose. Michelle was loved and will be missed by many. I remember her as a happy, laughing, little girl; for bringing me a coconut cake for my 75th birthday. I hope your best memories bring you great comfort. With sympathy and loving thoughts, Aunt Thelma, Kevin and Chrissy"
- Aunt Thelma, Kevin and Chrissy Taylor
- Posted: Friday, August 1, 2008

"Jenny and family, we at St. John's extend our deepest sympathy to you in this time of great sorrow. May the Almighty God grant you peace which passes all understanding. You are in our thoughts and prayers."
- St. John's United Episcopal Church
- Posted: Friday, August 1, 2008

"My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time. May the memory of Michelle's beautiful smile comfort you. "
- Lisa Early
- Posted: Friday, August 1, 2008

""Jenny,Eddie and Family,The last couple of days have been tough for everybody. Just knowing the fact thats shes gone,is hurting everyone. The day that Shelly passed I thought my whole world had ended. Just thinking about all the good memories that we'ved had together. I know she is looking down apone us,watching us,looking out for us. And she will always be in our hearts! Love Jessie!"
- Jessica Reed
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Jackie and Ricky, we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. There is nothing anyone can say to make it any easier. Just know that we are all thinking of you and if you need anything please call."
- Donna and Junior Bowles
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Jackie, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this time of saddness for you and your family. May God be with you. "
- Melvin and Glenda Dennis
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Jackie & family, we are thinking of you all during this difficult time. No amount of words can take away the pain that you feel, but please be comforted knowing that we love you and pray for your healing. Let us know if you need a helping hand, cooking, cleaning, babysitting, anything, we're there for you, Cara & Scottie"
- Cara & Scott Bean
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Jackie and Family, I am sincerely sad for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. "
- Todd Mattingly
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Jackie: I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences go to you and your family. You are in my prayers. "
- June Robrecht
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

""Jackie and Family. Our Deepest Sympathy in Your Loss." "Our family is thinking about you during this difficult time." "
- Byran and Kathie Cummings
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Jackie, please accept my heartfelt condolences in the loss of your daughter Michelle. "
- Karen Gates
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Jackie, I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. "
- Robin Duke
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Jackie, my prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. If there is anything at all that you need please call me. Even if it's just a friend to listen."
- Tracy Summerday
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Jackie & family, I extend my deepest condolences and prayers to your family. My heart goes out to you all."
- Kim Owens
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time "
- Koni Gordon
- Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2008

"Ours thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Michelle will be greatly missed Jackie we are so sorry for your loss "
- Linda and Margaret, Remsburg
- Posted: Wednesday, July 30, 2008

"On behalf of the staff at Three Oaks Center wish send our sincere condolences. Michele was a very sweet young lady. Her family is in our thoughts and prayers."
- Jean Harmon
- Posted: Wednesday, July 30, 2008

"My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. If you need anything at all please do not hesitate to call. "
- Pam Allen
- Posted: Wednesday, July 30, 2008

"michelle was a very nice person and a close friend of ours and we will miss her very much."
- jimmy and ella morgan
- Posted: Wednesday, July 30, 2008